I write on occasion about relationships.
Yesterday, I had the pleasure of overhearing a lengthy cell phone conversation. On my end was a man in his 20's or early 30's who wanted desperately to see the Yankees game on TV. He had told his girlfriend that they could go and have dinner prior to the game and then go their separate ways and then meet up thereafter. Apparently, she was not happy with that compromise.
He bemoaned this and even said if America's Top Model were on TV and she wanted to watch it, he would have watched it with her.
Give and take - yin and yang. Ebb and flow - boundaries - equlibrium was clearly not in that relationship.
He further confided in the eprson on the other end of the phone line, that he was almost hoping that they got into a fight so that he could just watch the game in peace. He felt guilty about it, he stated, but what choice did he have?
One of my dearest friends in the world is a workaholic. We still manage to speak via phone every day and see each other several times a week, distance of two separate counties notwithstanding. I give him space and he does the same for me - we ebb and flow, have our shared passions and separate obligations.
Yin and yang - ebb and flow.
He really should listen and so should she.
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